It feels paradoxical: on the one hand, age brings physical diminishment; I’m slower, weaker, less resilient, so perhaps the capacity to manage gripes is concurrently reduced and maybe we elders become more thin-skinned with age so our resistance to annoyance is lower and our sensitivity higher. On the other hand, I hope I am wiser and thus should find it easier to maintain a sense of proportion and more transcendent perspective. I think both are true and that it’s up to old folks to use our wisdom to better manage our diminutions and sensitivities, which will make us more pleasant and interesting to be around and happier as well. Still, it...

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