I think it’s unfortunate, even if unavoidable, that we pay so much attention to the early, intense, romantic, brief phase of new relationships. The old expression about the triumph of hope over experience in certain situations applies here, although while infused with the mania we generally avoid knowing the reality ahead, which comes soon enough to all relationships. Books, movies, life: we’re hooked, intoxicated, almost as if under the influence of a psychedelic, which, come to think of it, we are. I know nothing about the biochemistry of romantic passion but would be surprised if it were completely different from the experience of magic...

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